Dating Dillema – How to Break-up
When you feel like you feel more pain and misery more than love, pleasure and fun then sit down and contemplate about it. Try to evaluate if there’s anything your date can offer that’s valuable to you and get it and vice-verse. If not, then time to grow up and break up maturely.
By delivering the bad news, if it’s not working for you then it really is the end. It has to be delivered carefully. It’s not fair to just leaving without a word and disappear. Now the aim is to end it without exchanged harsh words of nastiness. Avoid painful break-up. How do you actually do that?
Avoid blaming your someone or something with about everything. Try to make it all your fault like “You’re too good for m…”, “I don’t deserve you…”, both of which you want to let go now. Or you can say calmly, “You didn’t love me enough…,” “You’ve been too busy and sometimes I feel I’ve been taken for granted…” Yadi yada. All you have to do is be calm and as much as possible, avoid blaming anybody or anything.
When it’s over, the “why” is less important than the “how” — how will you both walk away without leaving too much damage or scars? Communicating is very important. Talk in a civilized manner.
For Pete’s sake, you guys are done. You’ll be living on separate ways, try to grow up and move on. No need to point fingers or wash hands in front of each other. Let it pass. Let it go. Getting stuck with it won’t bring you good or won’t benefit your from anything. When you don’t keep asking why, then you’ll be easily able to carry on with life not bothered too much of the past.
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