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The Secret Formula for Succesful Dating (Men)

These fundamentals for dating successfully for men are just mere common sense. Just keep in mind all the basics are important. Miss one and it might put your dating a quick end.

First, pamper yourself by grooming yourself. That look of straight out of the bed look and not familiar with razor look might make your date lose interest of you at first glance. Hygiene is a very important role in dating. So don’t go out looking all dirty and smelling like you haven’t showered for months. Body odor and bad breathe instantly make your date change their minds about you, no matter how good looking or smart you are. Nobody likes to date someone who doesn’t know how to take care of themselves. It leaves a bad impression and you might be tagged as one of their dates that smelled awful.

Being punctual is always important. When you’re late, it will not only give you a bad impression of being irresponsible, your date will also think that maybe if they’ll go out with you in the future that you might let them wait like that all the time. But don’t turn up too early, by that time you get to your date, they’re just half way of what they’re doing.

Try to polish your behavior. Presenting yourself makes all the difference. Look fresh and refined with your moves and words. Be a gentleman by getting the door and pulling out the chair for your date. Treat your dates with great respect and they will admire you for that. Make sure that you are constantly doing that, not just only for the first date. Make it a habit.

Compliments, it’s music to your date’s ears. Make them feel comfortable and confident about your interest towards them. Don’t make it too much though, they might think oddly that you just want to get in their pants. Although not all think or find it that way. Just be careful with the words you say. “You look beautiful…” is a one liner your dates always remember.

Be a good listener. Don’t interrupt while you’re date is talking. That’s purely common sense. Give patience in hearing what she has to say and comment afterwards. Try to at least be interested or look interested so not to offend your date.

If you’re all out on this date, plan it all out. What you want to know about your date (keep some questions to ask her in mind), what you want to share (leave too sensitive topics behind), the purpose is to build an interesting conversation. Humor never fails to complete a date. Make sure it’s not below the belt. Talk about the basics like hobbies, movies, favorite pastimes, etc…

I believe that men should always pay the first date. It’s like a standard must. But sometimes these days women likes to take charge and insist on paying. Try to offer at least to pay half of the bill to sound courteous.

The part where you and your date part. Giving a goodbye kiss. Not all women are the same, some would like to have “the goodnight kiss”, generally it is expected by a lot of women but do not assume too much. Be observant if your dates body language gives you hint or signal that they like you or you feel like both of you are ready for it.  It’s not always sensible to have sex on the first date but just like what I’ve mentioned earlier, not all are the same. Some would be looking forward to it. But as much as possible, keep the respect.

If you plan to meet her again try to keep in touch. Ask for her number and let her know you’re interested in seeing her again. If not, then just give a plain good bye, smile and leave.